Our online individual sessions offer a flexible approach to recovery and healing work for anyone affected by problematic sexual behaviour.
Offering one on one and couples coaching and counselling sessions, our team have every angle of your recovery, healing and relational work covered. We have sessions available for those seeking recovery and freedom for themselves and those seeking healing from the impacts of sexual betrayal.
You may choose to work individually with one of our professionals in place of group support or alongside it, whatever you need. Our professionals come with a wide range of training and expertise so please check out their profiles and choose the person most suitable for your needs. If you’re not sure who will be the best person for you to work with, please schedule a session with any of the available team, all will be happy to help you to identify the best person for you to work with.
Meet the Recovery Team
CATHERINE ETHERINGTON
Cat is our Director of Recovery. She’s a certified professional life coach and integrative counselling practitioner, working with individuals and couples impacted by problematic sexual behaviour and betrayal. The first ever European practitioner to be certified by the Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS)
CINDY BAJEMA
Cindy is our Head of Recovery. She’s a a certified APSATS Partner Coach (ICF/ACC, CPC), Certified Empathy Specialist (CES), and a certified Trauma Informed Coach (TIC) who integrates multiple integrative and somatic disciplines in her work with individuals and couples. Specialized training with Carol Juergensen-Sheets (ERCEM), Dr. Jake Porter (CRC®) and the Gottman Method inform her work with couples. She brings valuable life experience of families with addiction, along with a deep heart of compassion to her work.
REBECCA MAESTAS
Rebecca is a licensed mental health clinician in the state of New Mexico, USA, a certified APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS), and a Life Coach trained by the Professional Christian Coaching Institute (PCCI). Rebecca works with individuals as well as couples. She has a family history of Drug and Alcohol addiction as well as walking through the journey of Partner Betrayal. Rebecca brings a diverse firsthand perspective as well as a passion for helping individuals and couples heal to her work.
JACKI LASH-IDLER
Jacki is an ICF Certified Coach (ACC), Peer Facilitator (C-SASI), an APSATS trained partner coach (CPC-c). She also has advanced training in problematic sexual behavior (SASH – ATPSB Levels 1 & 2), Internal Family Systems, resilience, self-care, relational recovery, sex and love addiction and intimacy anorexia. A lifetime of work focused on empowering others along with her personal experiences has instilled Jacki with a fierce desire to partner with men and women moving forward through addiction and trauma.
LISA TAYLOR
Lisa Taylor is a New Zealand-based counsellor specialising in sex addiction & partner trauma. She has studied with field leaders Barbara Steffens (APSATS), Paula Hall (ISAT), Donna Dixon (A Door Of Hope) and Christian Sex Addiction Specialists (C-SASI). Drawing on her own experience as the wife of a sex addict, Lisa has also authored several books on partner trauma and SA including the award-winning Beyond Betrayal.
BRYAN BAJEMA
Bryan is a Certified Life Coach and Mentor. He is also an APSATS trainee which allows him to bring a partner-sensitive approach to his coaching. Bryan works with men, focusing on strengthening recovery and relationship skills. Bryan is passionate about walking along-side with men who wish to have the best life they can while developing and strengthening their relationships.
CHRIS JONES
Chris is a qualified counsellor (MBACP) and certified professional coach (CPC) based in the UK. He has also completed training with Dr Omar Minwalla in the deceptive sexuality and trauma model (DST) and has also completed the multidimensional partner trauma model course with APSATS. He works with men recovering from “deceptive sexuality” as well as couples recovering from relational betrayal and does so from a firmly partner sensitive and trauma-informed perspective. His work focuses on the compulsive and/or entitled sexual behaviours themselves, as well as the associated deceptive behaviours that often develop alongside them and so often prevent relational healing.